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Am I getting
dumped?

We can’t tell you that. Nobody can.

But your conversations can show you what changed—grounded in what was said, how often, and what shifted over time.

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Am I Getting Dumped? identifies patterns—not intentions, diagnoses, or predictions.

Your communication rhythmLast 12 weeks
MayJuneJuly
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Curiosity has become less frequent

Questions made up 18% of earlier messages and 11% recently.

Worth discussing

“I miss feeling curious about each other. What would help us make room for that again?”

+24%More shared planning
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Am I Getting Dumped? notices patterns.
It never predicts your relationship.

01 Measured, not assumed
02 Neutral, not judgmental
03 Questions, not verdicts
How it works

Clarity in three gentle steps.

01

Bring your conversation

Upload a TXT or CSV export, or paste messages directly. You stay in control.

02

We map the patterns

Am I Getting Dumped? measures rhythms, responses, tone, curiosity, affection, and change over time.

03

Reflect, then talk

Receive a calm, evidence-based report and thoughtful questions for a real conversation.